The Jaime David Podcast: Episode 25 – Consent is out now!
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Consent
No means no. What’s so hard to get?
That is the basis of consent.
If someone says “no,” respect their wishes.
Do not force something that they do not permit.
If you are unsure, don’t hesitate to ask.
If they’re unconscious, do not be an ass.
If they’re unaware, try anything you should not dare.
Consent is a simple concept to grasp.
We learn it as children when we’re taught how to share.
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Read the episode transcript below:
JAIME DAVID (host):
Hey everyone, welcome back to The Jaime David Podcast. I’m your host, Jaime David, and today’s topic is something that should be straightforward, obvious even—but still gets misunderstood, dismissed, and at times, outright ignored.
We’re talking about consent.
This episode is short, simple, but powerful—just like the poem I wrote in 2020 that we’re going to talk about. The message is direct, and intentionally so. Because too often, consent is treated like a grey area when it isn’t. Let’s get into the poem first.
Consent
No means no. What’s so hard to get?
That is the basis of consent.
If someone says “no,” respect their wishes.
Do not force something that they do not permit.
If you are unsure, don’t hesitate to ask.
If they’re unconscious, do not be an ass.
If they’re unaware, try anything you should not dare.
Consent is a simple concept to grasp.
We learn it as children when we’re taught how to share.
JAIME DAVID (host):
It really is that simple.
No means no. And honestly, that should be the end of the conversation. But too many people treat consent like a negotiation, or like something that can be bypassed or excused.
And I want to pause here and really say something important: if someone is too afraid, too uncomfortable, or unable to say no—then it’s not yes. Consent isn’t silence. Consent isn’t compliance. Consent is clear, enthusiastic, and freely given.
I wrote this poem at a time when the world was grappling with the MeToo movement and countless stories of people—especially women, nonbinary folks, and children—sharing the pain of having their autonomy violated.
But this poem is not just about pain. It’s a reminder. A lesson. A call to do better.
It’s a reminder that we are all responsible for creating a culture of respect. A culture where boundaries are honored, and people feel safe being themselves.
And here’s something I believe to my core: if we can teach toddlers not to take toys from each other without asking, then adults have zero excuse when it comes to understanding consent.
So take this message seriously. Talk about it. Share it. Live it. And if you mess up—learn, apologize, and do better next time.
Consent is not complicated. It’s about dignity, respect, and basic human decency.
Thanks for joining me for this important conversation. Stay aware, stay compassionate, and as always, keep fighting for a better world. I’ll see you next time on The Jaime David Podcast.
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